How To Give a Prostate Massage

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We all know that men and only men (gender privilege!) have prostates. If you’re a guy, then like all other men, you’ve spent your life dreading going to a doctor’s for a prostate check. You’ve also heard of something called prostate stimulation, and you’ve wondered what it would be like. Does it just make ejaculation better, or do you experience multiple orgasms? Without further ado, let’s go over it, starting with the purpose of the gland itself.

What’s It For?

If you want to know more better tips to have sex, then make sure to read up. The prostate is a gland the size of a walnut. It sits between your penis and your bladder. It’s a reproductive part of your body, meaning that its whole purpose is to make you capable in the sack. Normally, your urethra connects your bladder to the tip of your penis so you can urinate. However, when you have sex, the prostate contracts and blocks the bladder’s passage. Then, your testes start spitting their contents, and you receive a receipt for your sexual pleasure.

And that’s not all, folks! Additionally, the prostate also secretes something called, quite unoriginally, prostate fluid. That gives your sperm a protective cover, allowing your Michael Phelpses to survive long enough to fertilize the egg.

Prostate Massage Therapy

The prostate itself connects to other reproductive parts of a man’s body via a prostatic duct. If that duct is not clean enough, it can cause quite a few problems for your body. For instance, you can feel pain during ejaculation, as your prostate gland swells. You can also have prostatitis if the gland gets inflamed, potentially disrupting the urine flow (i.e., you can’t pee). If you don’t seek out therapy on time, men’s biggest enemy will knock on your door — the diabolical genius called Erectile Dysfunction! In severe cases, some men have developed prostate cancer.

All of these (except, perhaps, for the last one) can be easily fixed if you go for prostate massage therapy on time. Think of it as involving kinky prostate play, except that the doctor is making you feel good for once. As they massage your prostate (called prostate milking in less sterile environments), the gland starts producing its fluid. The fluid then goes through the duct mentioned above and clears it from inside. As you can see, it’s a simple procedure with a clear-cut outcome. Thanks to its position (just behind your rectum), the doctor approaches it anally. But how would you do it to your partner (or yourself)?

How to Perform Prostate Massage

Now this section of the article is the fun section. We take it that you want to do this to experience the prostate orgasm feel, not to clear your duct. If the latter is the case, don’t be silly, go to a professional. You can do it with a friend (wink, wink), but it can also be a DIY thing.

First of all, get your soldier interested in the whole action. When erect (even rocking a decent semi will do), your prostate slightly repositions upwards. This way, you can approach it easier. Basically, prepare yourself for anal play. Wash your hands, and if necessary, you can clear your canal with anal douche. Then apply lube to your a-hole and your sex toy of choice (in this case, it’ll be your finger).

While masturbating, move your index finger in and out until there’s enough room for the whole finger to go inside. Reapply lube during this process if needs be. Once it’s fully in, massage the prostate by either anal penetration or with a circular motion. You can also apply pressure to it up to ten seconds.

Prostate Orgasm

Being aroused when you start looking for it will help you, as the prostate becomes bigger when we have an erection. Not to mention, of course, how an erection if you want to orgasm (duh!). Don’t be disappointed if you didn’t feel anything different at first and if what you thought would be a full-body orgasm felt the same as always. It takes some practice to find your perfect P-spot, and there’s no medical research about prostate orgasm. As a result, it’s unclear whether all prostates can give an orgasm, but once you achieve it, just do more of the same.

So, how will you know if you’ve done it? The prostate orgasm gives you a more wholesome feel. It’s more intense, and that satisfaction you feel in your penis spreads throughout your body. Some men have experienced what you’d call a super orgasm when they had a stream of multiple orgasms shivering their entire body. Sometimes when you have an orgasm this way, you may not even ejaculate (although you can release prostate fluid).


How Prostate Massagers Help Achieve Prostate Orgasm

Once you’ve got the whole finger thing figured out, you can switch it up and go for a prostate massager. It’s also easier this way if you’re flying solo, as you can approach it and control the pressure more conveniently. An anal massager vibrates, and the vibration will help you stimulate the prostate even further.

As you come closer to the finish line, play with vibration speeds, and find your sweet spot. You will get to come intensely, and you’ll be doing your body a favor by cleaning the duct. A perfect win-win situation! 

Finally, do not settle with just one type of prostate massagers. There is a ton of models with different colors, sizes, and features, just like what is being offered by  Purchase one or two, then enjoy!

Why Latex Suit Is Perfect for Bondage

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So, you’re into BDSM and looking for a way to step your game up? Maybe you’re someone who enjoys vanilla sex but is still curious? Whoever you may be, you’ve come to the right place. 

Here you’ll find all the answers to your bondage-related questions. Well, at least those concerning latex suits. Maybe you’ll even discover whether you’re a dom or a sub. Relax and dive into the BDSM world.

How Are Latex Suits Used in Bondage?

We’re sure you’ve come across latex porn at least once while you were browsing for what you wanted to watch. But what about latex BDSM? 

Latex is a stretchy and very form-fitting material. You can actually tear it quite easily, but if you don’t attempt that, it’s quite durable. Wearing anything latex can make you feel really confident and sexy. Suits usually come in black or red and can be in the form of catsuits or unitards. However, that’s less common than your typical bondage suit

A typical bondage suit is a tight-fitting suit, usually worn by the submissive. It covers your entire body from head to toe. Yes, it covers absolutely everything. Even your head and face, if the suit has a hood attached. In the BDSM world, dominants can wear latex catsuits as well. But when it comes to latex bondage, only submissives wear them. 

The purpose of the suit can be manifold since they come in different variations. It can visually make a statement saying who the dom and who the sub is. They have additional attachments that make bondage easier. And a lot of accessories can be added to spice things up, of course.

The Design of a Latex Suit Makes It Perfect for Submissive

So, we already know what a latex suit looks like. It covers you entirely until you’re looking like a black latex human. It’s so tight it basically becomes a part of you. So, maybe don’t engage in this kind of play if you’re claustrophobic. 

But why is this kind of suit perfect for submission? It has two sides. Psychological and physical. To understand that, we first have to understand the dom/sub culture. It probably sounds like a no-brainer, but doms are people in power. Subs are, well, technically their “slaves.” What’s most important, however, is that the relationship between them has to be consensual. Everyone knows their role.

During latex bondage, or generally any BDSM play, doms decide what happens. They do things to their subs and ask them to do things too. But doms aren’t some heartless people who will injure their subs and just leave them. If things get too much for the sub to bear, there’s a safe word that will put an end to whatever’s happening.

But how does the suit fit into all that? What is the physical aspect of all this? We know the suit hugs your body very tightly. However, there are more to suits than just suits. They can have hoods that cover your entire face, hence inducing sensory deprivation play. They also have very convenient zippers that are placed in just as equally convenient places. Places that can and need to be easily accessed. Such as breasts, genitals, anuses, and mouths. 

Suits also have metal rings, also known as anchor points, that make restraining easier. But that’s still not all. Other accessories can be added to the suit to make BDSM play more interesting or complicated, depending on what you like.

What About Vanilla Couples?

These suits don’t have to be used in BDSM strictly. If you like bondage and you like to feel sexy, these suits are for you as well. If you have a partner with whom you want to spice things up, you can try them out. Engaging in this type of play isn’t only for hardcore doms and subs in BDSM dungeons. You can playfully assert your dominance too, even if you don’t usually identify as a dom. Make it fun.

Other Accessories That Go With Latex Suits

There are so many accessories you can add to your latex suit. Whether you want to make things more fun or more intricate, there are options for everything. 

If you’re into catsuit bondage, you can find a hood or a mask with kitty ears. Nothing screams “kitty” like cat ears. We know suits have metal rings for easier bondage, but why not add more? You can add a harness that has more anchor points, depending on how much you want to be restrained. Add face hoods or masks if your suit doesn’t have them. There’s a variety of these, with zippers and whatnot. Some real fun stuff. 

You can also add nipple clamps, collars, or belts. On their own, latex suits are typically simple — they are suits that hug your body closely. So you can add whatever comes to mind to them. If you’re a dom and want to wear a latex catsuit, the same applies. Try whips, corsets, the highest stilettos. The simplicity of design is what makes latex suits so versatile. All it takes is the right creative mind to take everything to a whole new level. 

If regular latex suits seem boring to you, explore and add some fun things.


A blonde dominatrix in a vinyl catsuit.

What you can take away from this is not everything has to be so serious. Even vanilla couples can try some BDSM play. It’s perfectly safe. All you have to do is set some boundaries in place. 

Latex suits and all they entail can help you with that. They’ll help you feel more confident or more submissive, depending on the role you wish to take on. Either way, let it change your sex life forever.